Sunday, October 31, 2010

早点回来

自从我和Jordan讲了我不做工,他以为我可以现在就不用上班了。小孩那里明白要serve notice这回事呢。
Jordan:妈咪,我Monday没有读书,你是不是也在家陪我,没有做工?
我:不能啊Jordan, 妈咪还要做工3个星期。Jordan放假的时候,妈咪就可以在家陪你了。
Jordan:但是,我现在要你在家陪我。。
我:放假的时候,放假妈咪陪你。
Jordan:那样你要早点回来陪我。要好像那个uncle auntie那样早点回到家的。。。
oh my god,我的Jordan真的长大了。他真的什么都懂。连别人的爸爸妈妈放工回家比他的爸爸妈妈早,他也懂。听了他的话,心里好酸,好想立刻可以陪他。
朋友跟我说,小孩子是这样的,但是很快他们就可以熟习新的环境。我们应该放开手,让他们独立。看来,要真正学习放开的人是我,而不是孩子。孩子乖,只是自己不乖而已。

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Since I told Jordan I wont work and would accompany him everyday, he thought I can be with him from now. Kids dont understand what is serving notice mah...
Jordan: Mommy, Monday I dont have school, are you also not working, accompany me at home?
Me: Cannot... Mommy still have to work for 3 more weeks, during Jordan's school holiday, Mommy will be accompany you at home.
Jordan: But I want you to be at home now..
Mommy: School holiday Mommy will be accompanying you.
Jordan: Then you have to come home early ah... like uncle auntie next door...

omg... Jordan has grow up, he can even understand other parents reach home earlier than his parents. I feel so heart sick after I heard what he said.
My gf told me kids are like that, but they can adapt to new environment very fast. We should let go, so that they will be more independent. Looks like the one who needs to learn independent is Mommy, not Jordan.

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