Jordan has problem recently, he doenst want to write. At kindi, when teacher ask all students to take out their pencil to write, he would just sit still and not doing anything. Sometimes when teacher go to him and hold his hand, he will entertain and write 1 -2 words. Otherwise, he will cry and yell and doesnt want to write. Teacher complained him many times.
At home, if he brought back his homework, it's very hard for me to ask him to take them out to do. The worst scenario is I found that he was talking in his dream: I dont want to write. I was so heart sick when I heard that.
My relatives told me, he is just 4 years-old, dont need to force him to write, just let it be. But some of my gf and teachers would say, if he doesnt like to write in 4 yrs-old, he will be the same when he reach 5 or 6 yrs-old. And when he goes to Primary School.... that is! Teachers will not have time to go through one by one, it's your own matter when you want to learn or not.
Being a mother, I m so lost, I dont want to force Jordan to write, I dont want to create him a phobia, but I dont want him to dislike study when he grow up also... What should I do??